So glad I’m dating someone who understands the difference between dominance and domestic abuse. There are some people on this website that seem to be confused. Being a dom isn’t about being a vile piece of shit human and being a sub doesn’t mean that you’re a useless/worthless fuckhole. If your dom/sub lifestyle is borderline or legitimately a domestic abuse situation, even if it’s just in the bedroom, you’re fucking doing it wrong. If your sub doesn’t enjoy something, isn’t enjoying something, wants to stop, fucking anything, and you, as a dom, are forcing them, making them feel obligated or using their submission against them for your gain, you ARE a rapist/abuser. No questions, no grey area. Dom/sub is supposed to be enjoyed by all involved, not just the dom. End rant.